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Navigating the world of dating is tricky, isn’t it? Especially if you’re a career-driven woman.

Finding the time to go on dates and make a relationship work, connecting with the right guy on an emotional level, and not wasting your energy on men who have no interest in commitment. A problem I’m quite familiar with because, as much as I hate to admit it, I used to be one of those guys.

That’s right, ladies – your instincts are dead on. Some men are just playing games.

Having been “one of those guys,” I know all the red flags. Which guys are the “keepers” and who are the “creepers.” And my mission in life is to help busy women like you figure out exactly who is worth your time and who isn’t.

Here’s the reality: the biggest problem in dating today isn’t a lack of time or good guys, it’s a lack of clarity on what we want. Without clarity, beyond the vague concept of a “relationship,” we allow ourselves to fall into repeated traps of dating people who are exactly the opposite of what we need.

My focus as a coach is diving deep into your unique personality, and helping you figure out exactly the kind of guy that’s right for you and how to meet that kind of person. I help women stand in their power and ask for what they want, so you weed through the nonsense and get to the good stuff fast.

Through my experience as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, as well as a life coach, I’ve worked across the areas of mental health, support, counseling, therapy and coaching within a wide population. Weaving in spirituality, law of attraction, and my training, I’m known for my ability to create an open and safe space for clients to fully expand their possibilities.

My chief goal is to help you live your most authentic and fulfilled life, and find romance on your terms. There’s no need for you to waste another minute worrying about dating or struggling with crappy guys. Let me help you get out there with confidence and find what you’ve always been looking for.

I sincerely look forward to working with you.



What if you could see into the mind of a man? What if you understood the games men play with women? I am offering a one hour session which will assist you in identifying your relationship patterns and learning tools to achieving true happiness in a


A life coach is someone who helps improve your personal and/or professional life by offering support and encouragement while suggesting new ways to achieve your goals. It is a support system with one goal in mind: improving your quality of life.


Mark is a qualified speaker for the Inland Empire Speaker’s Bureau and is a member of Toastmasters. He has a passion for public speaking – inspiring others to new heights with contagious energy. Mark speaks on various topics including mental health,

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I’m Mark

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with undergraduate and master’s degrees in social work. I’ve worked in the areas of mental health, advocacy, support, counseling, therapy and coaching within a wide population including schools, prisons, colleges, mental health clinics and hospice. My work includes abused children, severely and chronically mentally ill patients and their families. My formal education and training along with my personal and professional experience has guided me to my true calling – life coaching. Realizing I had been coaching others for much of my life, I am thrilled to expand my reach, offering my expertise professionally.

I have had the privilege of experiencing extraordinary breakthroughs under Mark’s leadership. His dynamic creativity and insight have provided me many opportunities for personal and professional growth.

Bernadine Irwin



300 E  State Street

Redlands,  Ca 92374

PHONE: +1 (951) 733 0891